#1 Bring a gift for the host.
#2 Offer to help to the host.
#3 Participate in the holiday traditions.


#4 Ask the host where you should sit at the dining table.
#5 Wait for the host to begin the meal. A blessing or a few words will often be shared to thank everyone for being there.

#6 Eat slowly and engage in conversation with others during the meal.
#7 Say something nice about the food and thank those who helped make all the preparations.
#8 After the meal is over, see how you can help clean up.


#9 Don't overstay your welcome.
#10 Send a thank-you note to the host expressing your gratitude and appreciation for the meal.
